Early ejaculation

Sexual health implies ability to have sex that satisfies both partners. As often as not some problems make sex less desirable than it should be. One of these problems is early ejaculation.

This is a term to define ejaculation that occurs earlier than desirable. Everyone will agree that ejaculation is premature if it occurs before penetration. Some specialists consider that normally ejaculation must occur not earlier than 30 seconds, another ones think that a man must ejaculate only after 2 minutes. There is no common opinion on this problem. Actually, this is patient who makes the diagnoses. If a man and his partner are convinced that ejaculation is premature, than probably this is true.

What is bad about early ejaculation? The fact is that premature ejaculation prevents a woman from getting pleasure, as it is known that women take quite much time to orgasm. And it is known as well that healthy sex implies pleasure. Otherwise it brings only dissatisfaction and nothing else.

Why do you ejaculate too early?

The main difference between early ejaculation and impotency consists in the fact that physiological disorders do not matter at all here. During quite a long time doctors considered that the main cause of early ejaculation was stress and conflicts in relationships. It is difficult to object to this statement, because stress can spoil any kind of pleasure, whether it be delicious food or interesting activity. Some men, who ejaculate too early often consider themselves to be too sensitive to erotic stimulation. Doctors to not reject this cause. Before in such cases men used to be prescribed circumcision to diminish sensitiveness of the penis.

However, in most cases men ejaculate too early not because they cannot resist pleasure. The fact is that they cannot control their sensations which make ejaculation unavoidable. Most young men experience first erotic sensations through masturbation which does not imply any reasons to delay ejaculation. Many youngsters begin their sex life with prostitutes or in some inappropriate situations, for example on the back seat of a car. Both cases are very likely to result in early ejaculation: young men do not care about a prostitutes orgasm, or do everything in a hurry. The best way to begin sex life is to begin it with a beloved woman in a proper situation. First of all this will not damage a ones sexual health a good girl is less lucky to be infected with an STD than a prostitute. And secondly, the girl will let her boyfriend know that there is nothing good about hurrying.

Treatment of early ejaculation

No drug can be 100 per cent mean to delay ejaculation. Sometimes antidepressant drugs are used for early ejaculation treatment. But bear in mind, these drugs cannot be taken without a doctors prescription. Besides this, antidepressant drugs might cause a rather unpleasant side-effect: as often as not they weaken erection.

Many men complain that condoms diminish their sensations. Those who suffer from early ejaculation should take into consideration that this peculiarity turns into an advantage for them. If one condom is not enough to make your penis less sensitive, use simultaneously two or three condoms. Remember, you can do this only with a reliable (not infected) partner or if you do not mind having children. Condoms rub against each other and become much more likely to deteriorate. This does not contribute to sexual health.

Some men notice that their second intercourse lasts much longer than the first one and make it a rule to go to the bathroom and masturbate in the beginning of a date. After that they turn back and begin making love to the partner. Such method of second ejaculation has never been mentioned in medical literature, but it really can help those who do not want to apply to sexologists.

However, sexologists can teach you a technique which requires some practice, but really can give you the possibility to delay ejaculation at will. One of them is pressure technique. What is this?

>Pressure technique

Here a woman must play an active role. She has to caress a man while he is relaxed. She caresses his genitals until the man feels he is going to come. As soon as he lets the woman know about this, she pressures his penis at the glans with her fingers. She maintains pressure until man stops feeling the coming ejaculation. The man might lose erection as well as maintain it. Then the woman goes on caress and a man tries to delay readiness to ejaculate. Specialists recommend ejaculating after the third or the fourth pressure and practicing the exercise three or four times a week. According to most men experience, the first results can be seen after a few weeks.

A man should by no means think early ejaculation cannot be coped with and give up attempts to improve his sexual health. Healthy sex has nothing to do with disappointment and dissatisfaction. Enjoy your long lasting and delightful sex.