Secrets of female sexuality
The right to pleasure
Female sexuality began being studied about 100-150 years ago. Before this time lady had been afraid even of speaking about their libido, because the very its existence used to be considered a sign of outrageous immorality.
Today humanity recognize women's right to sexual satisfaction and openly speak about such notions as orgasm and frigidity. As well magnificent tiny organ - clitoris - has been "discovered". We mean its significant role in ability to achieve the peak of enjoyment. It turned out that circa 50-60 per cent of ladies can achieve this peak only through additional stimulation of clitoris - manual stimulation, cunilingus or stimulation with help of some sex toys.
This "discovery" could become a panacea which would solve all women's problems related to sexual relationships and getting satisfaction. Unfortunately, women still suffer from some troubles which deprive them of enjoyment. There are still many women who cannot achieve orgasm or face considerable difficulties when trying to reach it.
These difficulties can be divided into three groups. The fact is that these difficulties are caused by various reasons.
Sometimes inability to achieve orgasm is caused by a woman's partner who might suffer from some sexual health problems (for example, early ejaculation) or who do not care about long enough foreplay or additional stimulation of clitoris. In this case all troubles which cause lack of sexual satisfaction can be successfully coped with. A woman should have a trustful conversation with her partner and let him know what she needs for getting pleasure: may be stimulation of some erogenous zones, or use of sex toys or something else.
Lack of sexual satisfaction might be caused by some sexual health problems: inflammations and tumors in pelvic, ovarian dysfunction and others.
Painful sensations during intercourse which prevent a woman from enjoyment can be caused by dryness in the vagina or urinary track infection. Anorgasmy or loss of libido might be the result of some drugs consumption or a central nervous system diseases. Women suffering from such dysfunctions and diseases need help of psychologists, gynecologists, urologists and other doctors.
Pay your attention to the fact that the main factors preventing women from orgasm are psycho- emotional ones. This implies that lack of sexual pleasure might be caused by puritan education or unsatisfactory first sex experience of a woman.
Most women cannot get enjoyment unless they love or at least respect the partner. Trust,
tenderness and love guarantee a fantastic sex with fantastic sensations.
Besides this according to the results of a poll which was carried out in the USA the following reasons can cause loss of libido in a woman:
55 per cent of women do not want to make love to greedy men or men who cannot earn enough money
30 per cent of respondents hate drunk, untactful and careless men
15 per cent of women declare that their arousal can be decreased by badly smelling mouth, unpleasant odor of a man's perfume and the partner's obesity
So what stimulates female libido? Scientists have found out that this is an interesting job and regular exercising.
Everyone should keep in mind that there is no woman who always achieves orgasm. Female orgasm is quite a fragile thing. Only a woman who achieves the peak of enjoyment very rarely should worry about this and take some certain measures.
Dissatisfaction is harmful
Frigidity and long lasting anorgasmy bring about many troubles. First of all these are problems related to sexual health, such as blood stagnation in the pelvic which in its turn causes inflammatory processes in female genitalia.
Psychological state also leaves much to be desired. A woman becomes nervous, explosive and aggressive. Sooner or later this affects her relationships with the partner. Sexual disharmony is a very frequent reason for divorce.
Besides, American scientists have found out, that intercourse with an "indifferent" women harms a man's health and erection. The fact is that vaginal fluids of such ladies contain an agent which gradually, during many years decrease a man's libido and as the result leads to untreatable impotence.
As you see, men should be interested in their girlfriends' sexual satisfaction. They must do their best to give their women enjoyment. Everything is worth trying: new sex activities, new sex positions, various sex toys. As well a couple can visit a psychologist in order to find out whether a woman has some psychological problems which prevent her from getting pleasure. Never give up! There is almost no completely frigid woman. Awaken your sexuality.
Scientists try to help you
Scientists really do their best to help women enjoy sexual relationships. However, they do face difficulties while trying to discover a panacea.
For example, Pfizer company (the producer of the famous Viagra) gave up all attempts to invent an analogous drug for women. The company's specialists found out that female sexuality is based not only on physical feelings, but on emotional state as well. The scientists declare that female Viagra, as well as male one, causes blood flow to genitals, however this does not increase libido in women. Women are more emotionally sensitive and more complicated creatures then men!
Another experiment intended to help women cope with sexual problems was carried out by Californian doctors. They studied 100 women aged from 18 to 60 and came to the conclusion that testosterone level is the most significant factor influencing female libido. The higher level of this hormone is, the more sexually active a woman is. It is found out that decrease of testosterone level is mainly caused by: consumption of birth control pills and anti-depressant drugs, childbirth, breastfeeding and some psychological factors.
Canadian scientists from Montreal together with "Palatin Technologies Inc" company have invented a drug experimentally called PT-141. This drug is designed for both women (it provides women with stronger arousal and orgasm) and men (as an erection stimulator). The scientists still have to find out whether women who do not have any physiological problems related to libido decrease should take this drug.
PT - 141 if tested successfully is going to be a real panacea for sexual disorders treatment. But this is about tomorrow. Today doctors can offer dissatisfied women only psychological and sexological help, rather than drugs.
Let us wish scientists a success!
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