The first time

First sex contact is one of the most crucial events in a womans life. Such important things as future sex activity, libido and sexual health depend exactly on a womans first sexual experience. Therefore every man who dares be a deflorator must be aware that his behavior greatly influences their girlfriends future sex life. The first partners rudeness is very likely to make a woman frigid that is indifferent to intimate relationship. What is more, another partners even the most tender and loving ones will not be able to improve anything. About a half of frigid women explain their indifference to sex by the first partners roughness.

Virgins should not pay attention to other womens description of their first sexual experience. Feelings and sensations differ from woman to woman and depend on many peculiarities. For some women the first intercourse is painful, for others not. Sometimes defloration is difficult due to a womans fear and feeling uncomfortable. Therefore a womans first sex partner must do everything to make her relax. He must be very tender, tactful and confident at the same time.

The first intercourse must be performed only in a lying position. To relieve pain a woman should lie across the bed with her feet set against the floor. Or she can put a pillow under her buttocks, raise her legs and bend her knees. This will make the hymen strain and will ease its breach.

Usually a womans vagina is dry during the first sex contact. This makes intercourse very painful. To avoid this trouble the man should use a water-based lubricant.

Do not forget about protective measures. In the beginning of sex life you had better use a condom to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Condom is a very effective method of contraception, if used properly. Read the instruction and follow in thoroughly. Keep it in mind that the condom must be put on before penetration and took off immediately after the intercourse ends. To make your protection even more reliable you might use some chemical contraceptive means (gels, creams and foams) together with the condom. Chemical contraceptives contain especial sperm-killing agents which will help you to avoid pregnancy and infections if the condom breaks.

You must take some protective measures even if this seems to ruin romantic atmosphere. Abortion and STDs have nothing to do with romanticism either. No romance is worth your sexual health!

While having unprotected sex a woman is much more likely to be infected than a man. This is due to some peculiarities of female body. Viruses and bacteria get in female organism much easier than in male one. Therefore do not forget about intimate hygiene, which is a necessary condition of your sexual health. Do not hesitate to visit your doctor immediately after you began sex life. Make sure the first sex contact did not cause any diseases or injuries.

Many adolescents wonder at what age a girl should begin sex life. Actually, this is a disputable question. There can be no universal recommendations. Everything depends on a certain girls sexual maturation and being ready for such relationships. Some teenagers are ready for sex life physiologically, but are not emotionally and mentally mature enough. Every girl must answer the question Do I know everything about contraception? Am I a mature and responsible person? Is this man worth becoming my first sex partner?.

Girls should not be afraid of being worse than others. Everyone makes his or her own choice. Being a virgin is not shameful.

Only those women are happy with their sex life whose first sexual experience was successful and did not provoke any complications, such as unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Take care of your sexual health. Good sexual health implies good sex life.

Do you think you are ready for your first time? Than enjoy it!