Male libido

Male sexual desire,needs and abilities much depend on the age. But it does not matter whether you have just come back from honeymoon trip or you have been married for already 20 years. If you are aware of male sexuality peculiarities, you can drive your man crazy.
Though psychological aspect greatly influences male sex drive, hormones are much more important. Testosterone is a hormon responsible for libido in both sexes. It maintains the fire of sexuality during the whole life. However, the testosterone starts to dicrease when man reaches his fourties. Once this happens, physiological stimulation begins to influence a mans sexual desire more than just seeing a pretty women.
Testosterone level in men is 5-10 times higher than in women, that is why male sex drive is much stronger than a female one. Moreover, unlike female sexual drive, which is rather individual, male one does not differ much from man to man. According to statistic data 31 % of woman and only 16 per cent of man older than 40 suffer from loss of libido. Results of polls show that the vast majority of men (85%) have sex fantasies at least once or twice a day, whereas only 25% of women imagine sex scenes from time to time.
It was found out that testosteron level in men decreases by 1-2% per year. A 80 year mans hormone level is 40 % of the level usual for a men of 25. Besides this, testasterone level varies from men to man of the same age and depends on many features, such as mode of living,general state of sexual health chronic diseases, bad habbits and genetic peculiarities.

Stress diminishes libido in men, as well as in women. But irony of this is that a woman can make love only when she is relaxed. Men, in their turn, consider sex to be the best way to get rid of stress.

Men of 25

There is no use saying that the amount of hormones in men of this age is maximal, that their sexual health is in perfect order. Young men display an exceptional sexuality. A woman does not have to bent every effort in order to make a man of this age want her. When a young man falls in love, his testosterone level becomes even higher, what makes man nearly irrepressible.
25 is just the beginning of sex carreeer. You and your partner are not fed up with each other and have not managed to study all sides of sex yet. Moreover, most young couples who do not have children yet have more possibilities and time for romantic relationships in the morning and in the evening as well.
However, many men from 20 to 30 are not very experienced in sex and often are not self-confident as sex partners. Also they suffer from various kinds of stress, and in particular from early ejaculation.
It is advisable for young couples to study carefully bodies and sexual wishes of each other. Young couples should speak sincerely with each other about sex. But many young people feel embarrased when expressing their sexual preferences. Especially this is true with women who do not understand that most men want them to be open and sincere.
Foreplay will help you to get to know wishes and fantasies of each other. If your partner prefers fast sex, than you can make the foreplay longer by playing the following game: offer him to check how long you can caress each other without having a real sex? Let it be 20 minutes on the first day, 30 on the second one and so on. Try to break the record. This will help you to accustom your partner not to hurry and enjoy every minute of your being together. You can also play other game: take off your clothes, sit opposite each other, look into each others eyes trying to guess what your partner wants you to do. In a few minutes you can share your assumptions with him and may be you will be surprised by his fantasies.

Men of 35

At this age a man is in his full bloom. His hormone level is still high, though his sexual desire is getting more ordered and earthly. A man cannot be turned on just seeing a pretty girl, though it used to happen in his 20. On the other hand, men of 35 and older do not have problems with ejaculation and intercourse becomes much longer. That coincides with the peak of sexuality that many women experience after 30. Men, as well as women of this age are more self-confident, they know much more about their sex preferences and wishes. They are not so afraid of sex failures and are more eager to speak with their partners about intimate relationship.
If there is a certain stability in family relationship, the partners feel a deep devotion towards each other. Unfortunately, spontaneous sex is often prevented by care for children and career making.

Men of 45

Though a 45 year mans testosterone level is much less than of 25 year one, it is still quite high. But the sex life becomes less frequent. About 5% of forty ear men experience sexual health problems such as for example erection problems.
At this age psychological aspect is very important in sexual relations. Physiological abilities of a man older than 40 inevitably decreases in the course of time. That causes many problems in sex and affects frequence of sex life. According to American sexologists, men older than 40 spend more time on shaving than on sex.
In other words, at this age a man does not often think about sex and it is much more difficult to turn him on. Nevertheless, many couples after 40, report that they have much more satisfaction of sex than ever. At this age both partners know what they want and what they like. They are not ashamed of trying new positions and other sex experiments in bed, because they know each other for quite a long time. It is very important not to decrease the frequency of intercourse, in order to postpone decrease of hormone level.

Male climacterium

The question whether the term male climacterium has the right to exist used to be discussed for quite a long time. It is sharply defined that female climacterium is closely connected with loss of ovulation and reproductive ability. What to men, many of them are fertile untill an extreme old age. Nevertheless, the existence of some changes in neurous, endocrine, cardiovascular and other systems cannot be denied. These changes and a decrease in testosterone production allow us to speak about the term male climacterium.
Male climacterium can appear at any age. Early climacterium before 45, usual from 46 to 60, and late after 60.
It is clear that all changes in male organism at climacteric age cause nearly complete loss of libido. But absence of sex drive does not mean that climacterium has began. You should know that there are many other factors that can bring about loss of libido.
There are many causes of libido loss, but as a rule it is usually connected with psychologic problems (though some diseases can bring about lack of interest is sex life). Very often some conflicts, which first seem to have everyday causes, may reflect in sex life. As often as not, depression prevents from getting pleasure when making love. Alcohol, too big doses of antidepressant drugs help get rid of unpleasant emotional experience but at the same time affect sexual health and make sexual desire weaker. If you have realised that you are not so interested in sex as you used to be, if you rarely or never feel the need of sex and often ignore your partners attempts to make love, if you prefer to think about sex rather than to have it that means that you have the problem that is called loss of libido.
You should not be ashamed of this fact and try to conceal it from your beloved woman. The best way out here is to visit a doctor who will certainly help you to improve your sexual health. And remember: the sooner you do it the sooner you will be able to enjoy sex life and life in general again.

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